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Psychologists
This had happened
to me so many times that I have come to anticipate it. Upon hearing
that I am a psychologist people tend to have one of the two reactions.
They would either mocking being in awe: "Ho, no, watch out, she
is going to read out minds." Or, they will jokingly tell me that
a psychologist is just the person they need, because there are many
people around here that have "problems". I do not mind this, really.
Although it certainly shows how little the lay people know about
our profession, in a way, it also shows their high regards towards
what they think we are capable of. But I do want to take the opportunity
to clarify issues and answer questions for lay people, as well as
for students considering joining the profession. I will do it in
a FAQ format.
Q:
What is a psychologist?
A:
A person who holds either a Ph.D. (Doctorate of Philosophy) in psychology,
an Ed.D. (Doctorate of Education) in psychology, or a Psy.D. (Doctorate
of Psychology).
Q:
Can psychologists read people's mind?
A:
No, we can not.
Q:
Do psychologists treat mental disorder and abnormal behavior?
A:
Some do. Some don't. For example, as a social psychologist, I study
how normal people's think and behave in social situations. Often
it is just average folks in an everyday situation, such as in a
work group, at a party, or with a date.
Q:
What about those psychologists that do treat people with mental
disorders or psychological problems.
A:
They are called clinical or counseling psychologists. To be a practicing
clinical or counseling psychologist, one needs a doctoral degree
plus proper licensing. Information about psychology licensure is
available online.
Q:
Are there also psychiatrists?
A:
Yes, psychiatrists also treat the mentally ill. But they are not
psychologists. They are medical doctors (M.D.). Like your family
doctor, they obtained their MD by going to medical schools, in stead
of graduate schools. The difference is that after medical school,
they have done a 3-year residency in psychiatry, where they learnt
to diagnose and treat mental illness, often by using medicine.
Q:
How about people with Master's degrees in psychology? Can they be
called psychologists.
A:
The title "Psychologists" are usually reserved for individuals with
doctoral degrees. People with Master's degrees in clinical or counseling
psychology can become "counselors" and "therapists".
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What
is Psychotherapy
Psychotherapy
covers
the psychological treatment of a wide range of mental and physical
ills by a number of different methods, each developed in terms of
its own theoretical framework.Such treatment is carried out with
individual patients or clients, with groups of patients and with
children as well as adults.
Methods vary
from a long series of intimate discussions extending over two or
three years, to only one or two intense interviews. Group treatment
may consist of acting out problems or the encouragement of expression
of inhibited emotions within the therapeutic group. The Society
view is that psychotherapy, as well as the use of hypnosis with
psychotherapy, is most appropriately regarded as a post-qualification
specialization for members of one of the primary professional groups
such as medical practitioners, applied psychologists or social workers.
Such people
are more likely to interact in the development of psychological
problems and to have a sufficient range of professional experience
and skills to judge when a potential client might be more appropriately
helped by other methods. The advice to psychology graduates wishing
to train as psychotherapists is that they should first acquire a
relevant basic professional training in another area of applied
psychology or other relevant profession, and to follow this with
a post-qualification training in psychotherapy.
The Society
approves some post-qualification courses in psychological therapy,
and such courses are usually advertised in The Psychologist. However,
some psychology graduates may wish to train in psychotherapy without
a professional training in applied psychology. The Society cannot
provide information about suitable courses and does not accredit
training courses in psychotherapy for people who are not already
Chartered Psychologists.
Such graduates
should contact the British Association for Counselling and the UK
Council for Psychotherapy. Intending applicants for private psychotherapy
training should be aware that some bodies offer clearly inadequate
training (for example, applicants should be able to recognize that
training lasting only a few weeks is unlikely to be sufficient).
The following questions may be useful to consider when looking at
a course in psychotherapy:
Is the course
prospectus detailed enough toindicate the objects, methods and
orientation?
Is the course
long enough, and the amount of supervised experience sufficient?
What are
the qualifications of the course organizers and supervisors?
Is supervision
of therapy provided to trainees individually (or at least in pairs)
on a regular basis?
Does the
course have a formal and externally validated method of assessing
trainees competence?
Has the
course been approved by an accredited body other than the organization
running it?
Currently
there is no registration or licensing of psychotherapists in the
UK, and so there are no specific qualifications required for private
practice. Public employing authorities each have their own regulations.
The NHS has posts for child psychotherapists and the Association
of Psychotherapists is the appropriate body to advise on training;
there are no NHSposts for adult psychotherapists other than those
for psychiatric psychotherapists or clinical psychologists specialising
in psychotherapy.
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Everything
you wanted to Know about Hypnotherapy!
"What is hypnosis?"
It is not sleep, but a natural, normal, relaxed
and focused state of attention characterized by:
Feelings of well-being Increased muscle relaxation
Increased pain threshold Predominating Alpha Brain Waves Diminished
ability to vocalize Flashback access of stressful memories Literal,
childlike understanding of ideas Ability to accept new ideas about
yourself if they are emotionalized and not in conflict with your
values. Simply put, hypnosis is either interactive guided imagery
or applied meditation toward a specific goal while in various
levels of a trance state.
"How do I know if I can be hypnotized?"
There are only three types of people that cannot
be hypnotized:
1. A person in a psychotic process or with
a thought disorder
2. A person with a low IQ
3. A person who really does not want to be hypnotized
If you can focus your attention, use your imagination, and desire
to be hypnotized, you can enter at least a light state of hypnosis
anytime you wish. Actually, hypnotizability is a sign of intelligence
and was used extensively by such brilliant authors as Aldous Huxley.
Learn to navigate in that "in-between", dream-like state, which
is part of the normal repertory of human consciousness, and you
will be amazed at your hidden abilities and strengths! In a private
session, it just becomes a question of how deep are you willing
to go in the presence of another person. (The biggest hypnotizer
of all time is television. And with 60% of TV commercials about
junk food, it is no wonder why so many Americans are overweight.
To find out more how hypnosis will help you Release Weight using
positive imagery
"What does hypnosis feel like?"
It feels like in the morning when you hit the snooze button on
your alarm, and you are aware of yourself lying in your bed with
eyes closed, not quite asleep, but not quite awake either. The
subconscious is the seat of intuition and creativity; that is
why some writers or painters do their best work in the early morning.
Their subconscious is closer to the surface then, especially
after dreaming in REM sleep. (REM often occurs in hypnosis.) Even
with eyes wide open some people go into "highway hypnosis" and
drive right past their exit. Generally, you can feel hypnotic
relaxation in your body in some way; either your limbs will feel
heavy, like lead or light and tingly, almost numb. (You don't
need to get hooked up to some silly "biofeedback machine" to learn
this about yourself!) Sometimes a good indicator of deep hypnotic
relaxation is experiencing slight twitches in your body as your
nervous system "reboots" and you shift to abdominal (parasympathetic)
breathing. Recognizing these sensations is the best biofeedback
you could ever have!
"Is hypnosis dangerous?"
Absolutely not. Hypnosis was approved by the Council of Mental
Health of the American Medical Association in September of 1958
as a safe practice with no harmful side effects. To date, no one
has been seriously hurt with hypnosis. We greatly underestimate
the ability of the subconscious to protect itself. The only dangers
are in misconceptions promoted by fundamentalist religious leaders
who wish to frighten and disempower their followers. Fear and
ignorance have caused more people to hurt themselves and/or others,
even while wide awake, than would ever occur in a hypnotherapy
session.
"Can I be made to do things against my will?"
Again, Absolutely not. You could never be made to do anything
against your will or contrary to your value system. You would
not unknowingly reveal your deepest secrets either; it is even
possible to lie in hypnosis, which is why testimony while in hypnosis
is not permissible evidence in a court of law. A person will only
act upon suggestions that serve them in some way or reinforce
an expected behavior, anything else their subconscious will just
ignore. Most people develop these misperceptions from seeing or
hearing about a Stage Hypnosis show, which, you must understand,
is done for entertainment purposes only.
"How long will it take before I notice a change?"
In one session, you can expect to become more relaxed than you
are right now. That in itself can be a big change! If you can
agree that the ability to intentionally relax yourself is an important
first step towards improving your health and mental focus, then
in one session at least you will learn how to do that.
The inherently hypnotic and creative "positive imaging" process
helps lift your goal out of the ineffectual, hazy, "just a concept"
realm and focuses your goal into a decisive aim. Hypnosis can
bridge that gap between the head and the heart, making your goal
much more emotionally compelling, and thus setting the stage for
lasting change. Depending upon the intensity of your session or
the number of times you have listened to your audio tape, (you
should expect to listen to a reinforcement tape for at least a
month), you will notice suggestions for the desired behavioral
changes spontaneously popping into your conscious mind almost
immediately.
Your subconscious mind will attempt to prompt you out of your
old patterns with these cues. In other words, your conscience
will "wake up" to the habit. This is the first step in reprogramming
yourself. Next, it is up to you to get real with yourself and
act on those cues. "To be or not to be, that is the question",
wrote Shakespeare. In many respects, hypnosis is about being more
awake, but in a relaxed way. (Ever notice how just talking about
a weight problem usually creates lots of tension and anxiety?)
"Does hypnosis weaken the will?"
Absolutely not. You will not develop a dependency on the Hypnotherapist,
either, since hypnotherapy is a short-term, goal-orientated therapy.
These misperceptions are sometimes expounded by unenlightened
Yoga teachers, which play upon some people's fear of loss of control;
they do not understand that hypnosis is in fact a tool to gain
more self-control and can actually help improve one's meditation
practice!
"Can hypnosis make me want to exercise or
stop eating sugar?"
When a person asks me this, I ask them, "Are you really ready
to change?" Because hypnosis cannot make you want do something
that you really don't want to do. Otherwise, hypnosis would be
a waste of both our time. A person could not be hypnotized to
run a marathon, unless they already were a runner. A Sports Hypnotherapist
can help a good athlete stay focused on becoming a better one,
but the athlete must already be making efforts towards their goal.
There is no easy substitute for practice. In other words, hypnosis
can give an athlete the mental edge that could make the difference
between a silver and a gold medal. It's all about focus.
More on Hypnotherapy
In the 1800's, hypnosis was widely practiced by physicians,
particularly in Europe.
In days before drugs were part of the arsenal of phsicians,
it was used as an anesthetic and analgesic. Various forces led
to its going underground--or actually "on stage," since stage
hypnotists kept it alive during the early part of this century.
Undoubtedly the widespread availability of chemical anesthesia
and analgesics was a strong factor.
"Queen Victoria had chloroform for delivery of her third child.
Overnight, hypnosis was out," says Emil Spillman, MD, a pathologist
who has practiced and taught medical hypnosis for decades. Another
strong factor in its demise as a theraputic tool was Freud's disenchantment
with it. Freud admits in his writings that he is not very good
at hypnosis---undoubtedly one reason he quit using it. But he
also, according to Dr. Spillman, was concerned about "symptom
substitution," the belief that if you removed a symptom, it might
be replaced by something worse.
Dr. Spillman's own experience with thousands of patients over
25 years is that "this doesn't happen." If a patient's symptom
(for example, migraine headache---Dr. Spillman believes 95% of
these are curable with hypnosis) is associated with a highly emotional
event in his/her past, hypnosis can remove the symptom permanently,
with no side effects. But if the symptom is a way of coping with
a trauma that is current in the person's life---for example, a
bad marriage---"the hypnosis simply will not work without dealing
with the trauma itself." The idea that hypnosis is harmful has
now been discounted. David Spiegel, MD, Associate Professor of
Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Stanford University School
of Medicine, put it this way: Physicians often worry that hypnosis
involved significant risks to patients. Actually, the phenomenon
is not dangerous and has fewer side effects than even the most
benign medications.
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The
Facts on NLP
These are answers from Richard Bandler, creator
of Neuro-Linguistic Programming
1.
What is NLP™?
Neuro-Linguistic Programming™ is "The Study of the Structure of
Subjective Experience and what can be calculated from it."
2.
What is NLP™ technology?
NLP™ is based on finding out what works and formalizing it. In order
to formalize patterns I utilized everything from linguistics to
holography. I didn't just elicit peoples' strategies since when
I started out there weren't any strategies, yet. I invented them.
Strategies are a model.
A strategy is just that, a strategy. I think it is important for
people to make a distinction between a model and a technique. A
model (like Strategies, Submodalities, Anchoring, Transderivational
Search, Chaining States, the Meta Model™, Meta Programs, Semantic
Primes, Semantic Density, etc.) will allow you to create new techniques.
The techniques generated from these models are techniques, nothing
more.
When people discover what someone they consider to be a genius or
expert does inside their head in order to perform a task exceptionally
well using the models of NLP™, what they've discovered is not a
new model. It is a strategy. The sequencing of various aspects of
the models that constitute NLP™ in order to change someone's internal
representations is called a technique.
A model is a formal representation of behavior that allows prediction.
Models are most commonly used in physics, e.g., in order to predict
the rate of distribution of one liquid within another as well as
how much movement the added liquid will have if poured from 2 inches
above a beaker with a 2 inch diameter. The models that constitute
NLP™ are all formal models based on mathematical, logical principles
such as predicate calculus and the mathematical equations underlying
holography.
Furthermore, all of these models are generative, e.g., when challenging
one Meta Model™ distinction, the answer will always be a surface
structure containing further Meta-Model™ distinctions. They are
also recursive, i.e., the model can be applied to itself, e.g.,
you can use the Milton Model in order to define and utilize the
distinctions described in The Hypnotic Patterns of Milton H. Erickson,
M.D., Vol. 1 in order to understand how the book uses the principles
described therein in order to teach them, i.e. it defines itself.
These distinctions will help people understand the difference between
what a model and a technique is.
3.
How are the NLP™ building blocks such as calibration techniques,
patterns in the language someone uses, predicates and Meta Model™,
eye movements and Submodalities, other analytical models such as
Logical levels, Meta-programs, perceptual positions, timeframes,
etc. used to observe experts?
These tools were not developed in order to observe experts. They
were discovered by observing experts. They were developed in order
to further evolve human consciousness to the point that people could
replicate skills and have deliberate control over their own consciousness.
Nothing in NLP™ is analytical. It is all designed to be applied.
If you do not know how to apply something that you learn as "NLP™"
then, it is either not NLP™ or you have a bad teacher.
I think the best example of this misunderstanding is Meta-Programs.
I've had people tell me that someone is a visual who sorts towards.
That can't be true because if you ask a person to make a picture
of themselves brushing their teeth with a toothbrush they just wiped
their behind with, they probably won't move towards that. Most of
you would probably say, "Yuck!" and move away from doing that. (If
you behave in the previously described manner. STOP IT! It's not
a good idea.) Meta Programs describe how people sort through multiple
generalizations. As such, they will tell you what lies inside and
what lies outside of someone's generalizations about things like
doors.
When someone says, "Stupid door!", that gives you a pretty good
idea about what lies outside their generalizations about what doors
"are". If you then ask them how they know the door is "stupid",
they'll give you an answer that will identify their "sorting style",
i.e., "There's no knob," meaning that it can only be a not-stupid-door
if it has a knob. If what they want is to be able to open more kinds
of doors, then you have to teach them to sort for things other than
just a knob in order to identify a door. That's how Meta-Programs
work. They don't just describe someone diagnostically. They give
you something to do. NLP™ consists of models. By applying these
models one can generate techniques. The models are patterns. As
such, they will be true 100% of the time. That is why statistics
don't apply.
4.
What can I do with NLP™?
There
are many areas in which NLP™ has been utilized. Whatever your profession
is, you can use NLP™ to build on whatever it is you are already
doing.
5.
What are typical NLP™ applications?
Collapsing
Anchors, Visual Squash, 6-step Reframing, V/K dissociation, Change
Personal History, Belief Change, Reimprint (all which are sometimes
called NLP™), are some of the techniques that were derived from
applying the models.
6.
Isn't NLP™ mainly used for therapy and that's where the procedures
came from?
I have never once called anything I do a "procedure". I call them
techniques or exercises. It's important to emphasize that NLP™ is
an educational tool, not a form of therapy. We don't do therapy.
We teach people some things about how their brains function and
they use this information in order to change.
7.
What are the best products and applications for business?
I have no idea what some of these products are. Once again, I think
it is important for people to understand the distinction between
a model and a technique. To use "products" also seems slightly misleading
as I personally have used more of these simple things in business
environments. I have used everything from strategies and anchoring
to the Meta Model™ and Milton Model. Understanding board meetings
seems to me to be the same as understanding how a family functions.
I've done things like change where people sit at a table and change
the outcome of the meeting.
8.
What about enhancing creativity?
I think the more you want to become more and more creative you have
to not only elicit other peoples' (plural) strategies and replicate
them yourself, but also modify others' strategies and have a strategy
that creates new creativity strategies based on as many wonderful
states as you can design for yourself. Therefore, in a way, the
entire field of NLP™ is a creative tool, because I wanted to create
something new.
9.
What about learning strategies?
Which
learning strategies are useful in which contexts? What if we design
new, more intense states and used those as the basis upon which
we learn? All the models and techniques can be of use in many areas
or professions. None of these areas are different from one another
once you denominalize the words, i.e. "therapy, creativity, learning,
business."
10.
What is the best progression for learning NLP™; is it to attend
a Practitioner program, then a Master Practitioner , then a Trainer?
None of these are the only way to learn NLP™ nor necessarily the
best for any one person. The learning strategy they engage in will
determine how they learn, but as we know, those aren't set in stone.
It isn't necessary that people go in any particular order. I know
that some people make you do them in that order, but they are, as
I originally designed them, different courses which cover different
material and I know that learning doesn't come in levels, because,
if it did, you would all have to have my personal history up to
1975 in order to use the Meta Model™ and that just isn't the case.
There are also introduction courses, Design Human Engineering™ courses,
business and personal consulting, Personal Enhancement Courses,
NLP™ as an application to Hypnosis, Sales courses, etc.
11.
Can you recommend some good NLP™ books & tapes?
I recommend reading Persuasion Engineering™, The Structure of Magic
Vol. I, and Vol. II, Time For A Change. Magic In Action II, Using
Your Brain For A Change, Patterns of Hypnotic Techniques of Milton
H. Erickson Vol I & Vol. II, as well as The Adventures of Anybody.
I also recommend reading the texts listed in the bibliography of
The Structure of Magic I. The tapes I recommend include Patterns
of Persuasion, Design Human Engineering™, Hypnosis in Munich (unedited),
Personal Enhancement Series (The Neurosonics Tapes), The BarbizonTapes,
and The NeuroSynchronizer. Most of these products can be purchased
through NLP™ Seminars Group International's Book & Tape Catalog.
12. What are the roots of NLP™?
Any references to the early work can be found in the bibliography
to The Structure of Magic Vol. I. These refer to some of the research
that I used to develop NLP™. Reading these books with a knowledge
of what NLP™ is will show that they had something but didn't know
what, yet. I took a few things from these and other places and formalized
them into models which I apply. I would highly recommend reading
those texts referred to the bibliography of The Structure of Magic
Vol. I. Sometimes it seems that NLPers ask stupid questions and
the reason why NLPer's seem to ask stupid questions is because The
Structure of Magic Vol. I is written backwards and doesn't tell
you how to use the Meta Model™ in order to go somewhere. That's
because it was a model of how therapists asked questions. Try reading
chapter 4 from the last distinction to the first. That is the proper
order.
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